Even the very word accountability can make the hair stand up on the back of your neck!

Often the word accountability is used in a scolding manner such as “You’re not very accountable!” As a certified NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) practitioner, I’ve learned about the impact of words and I particularly like reframing a words meaning. By reframing I mean to look at a word and its meaning from a different point of view. Consider the following reframe of the word accountability.

If you’re familiar with my work you’ll often hear me use the phrase “So, what do you want?” In my book and other articles, I often refer to wanting to attract something. In short I use the word ‘want’.

A number of people have been trained not to use the word ‘want.’ They have been told that when you use the word ‘want’ you’re actually holding the vibration of not having ‘it’. Or when you use the word ‘want’ you’re coming from a place of lack.

In short, Law of Attraction is all about vibes. Vibes are simply vibrations. Vibes are moods and feelings. The vibes that you send (generated from your moods and feelings), are either negative vibes or positive vibes which Law of Attraction is always responding to by matching and giving you more of the same. So everything you’re attracting is a result of the vibrations that you are sending. In short, what you’re getting is what you’re vibrating.

Many people want to know the answer to this question. Here’s what you need to know about attracting many new desires. Some people experience different degrees of negative results while waiting for their new desires to manifest. Let me explain why this happens using the example of wanting to attract an ideal relationship. You’ve identified your desire for an ideal relationship using the contrast from past relationships (Clarity through Contrast exercise). Your desire for an ideal relationship creates a high vibration. Nothing in the relationship area of your life currently matches this ideal relationship. Right now, this mismatch of vibrations between what you have right now in the relationship area of your life and what you desire in your ideal relationship causes some negative emotion. We call that negative emotion resistance. Resistance is simply the distance between the vibration of what you currently have and the higher vibration of your newly birthed desire. Resistance always occurs to some degree in the transition of experiencing what you have now to what you desire.

The purpose of the Desire Statement is to support you in giving attention, energy and focus to your newly birthed desire. It teaches you how to add language to your desires so that they feel good. The key to the Desire Statement is it needs to be TRUE for you. You'll notice that one of the recommended sentences is "I love how it feels knowing...." Using this sentence allows you to state your desire in a way that makes it true for you. When it is true for you, you send out a positive vibration. It’s not a matter of how often you read or say your Desire Statement each day. Your goal is to give your desire positive attention, knowing that as you do that you are sending out a positive vibration.

This is a popular question people ask me. How do I know if I am mastering the art of Deliberate Attraction? Is there an advanced course I can take? My answer is always the same. "The application of this material into your daily life IS the advanced course!" To help you gauge where you're at in the mastery of Law of Attraction, I've compiled a list of seven sure-fire ways to tell if YOU are joining the thousands of people who really are mastering this stuff.

Have you heard yourself or others say "This has shown up 3 times in my life lately. It must be a sign that it's right for me." First, who decided there is something significant about anything showing up 3 times? You see, when you give your attention, energy and focus to something, the Law of Attraction checks in with you and gives you more of whatever you are placing your attention on.

Given that so many of us are goal setters, this article is in response to the volume of questions I get about this topic - Goal Setting and Law of Attraction.

Are you one of those folks that needs to 'figure-it-out' all the time? Are you one of those Law of Attraction students who catches yourself saying things like "I wonder how this is going to come to me?" or "What do I need to figure out so I know what to do next (to manifest what I desire)?"